I usually refer to males as the more dominant and females as the more submissive. The intention is NOT to say that ALL relationships should fit that pattern. My relationship experience is with male dominant, female submissive arrangements and that is the only sort of relationship I have firsthand knowledge about.
Lucian Bane is not a counselor and does not claim to be one. Any information given in these pages is strictly related to his personal experiences, and not intended in any sort of professional advisory capacity.
As with any information from any source, the individual must personally determine what applies to their life situation and decide how to use it. No suggestion will fit all situations.