Ask Lucian Anything (12-14)

12/7/2014 8:04:17 Can you tell us why your message is so important? For the ones that understand why it’s important but for those who don’t, maybe you can let them know why. I for one understand why it’s so important. Good question. I think in short, the message is so important because families are becoming extinct. Our society is getting so that pleasures and passions dictate our moral code of conduct, rather than our moral code of conduct dictating our pleasures and passions. We’ve become infatuated with dominance and submission and have forgotten that without a moral code of conduct … Continue reading

Ask Lucian Anything (12-13)

12/6/2014 7:29:26 In Ruin, I am devastated. We lost a good character (Trying not to give away a spoiler here.) Why go that route?   Syrina, is this you? Hahaha. Syrina is RUINED and obsessed about this question. Everywhere I go, she’s there, asking it in some form or another. She reminds me of Inspector Clouseau in a different disguise at every location. Okay, if it’s not her, I do owe a fuller answer than I’ve given, so let me give it a shot. I always knew something major was coming in this story. If you read my journey with … Continue reading

Loving With Lucian (FIND IT AND DO IT)

Hi ladies who are not single 🙂 I’m doing something new, and simple. It’s called “Let’s Play Nice” You ever wonder over the power of one or more, small, good deeds? Well, let’s test it and find that out. I want to do this “undercover” so, don’t tell your husband what you’re doing, just do it and record his responses in a journal. What are you going to do?  You’re going to bring healthy change to your relationship. You’re going to forgive past wrongs You’re going to take the first step And you’re going to FIND something that means something … Continue reading

Wednesday Journaling (Agitated)

The power of the pen lies within the heart of the writer. That’s what I heard in my head when I woke up this morning on the wrong side of the bed. It’s always the profound shit when I’m agitated. Yes, I’m agitated. But thankfully I learned to be careful not to let my agitation direct my day, only I forgot how that worked and snapped at my wife like a fucking dick. I could sit here and think of all the reasons why I’m agitated but none of them warrant taking it out on her. I’m pissed over valid … Continue reading

Reaching Out (Singles’ blog with Lucian Bane)

Here it is ladies, your singles’ post. So, I’ve been thinking a lot about this. How do I help single ladies? I think of you all as my sisters and good friends, so, it wasn’t as hard as I thought it might be to know what we need to talk about. Body Mind Heart Spirit Getting those four things into top health are what we need to focus on. The first thing I’d like to say to you is this: It’s not all about you. It’s about you and a potential very significant other and possibly a family too. So, … Continue reading

Ask Lucian 12-7

11/14/2014 11:56:31 I know you speak toward couples and married couples, but have you ever though about giving advice to single people without a significant other? Or would dating advice not be something you’re interested in? You will be happy to know that I am going to be dedicating a day during the week just for singles. 11/15/2014 20:29:28 Oh you like to cook, what is your most ambitious successful dish? What is your flavor.. mexican, italian, chinese, greek? That’s about 10 questions there! lol I do love to cook and I do love many cultural flavors. It’s like my … Continue reading

Ask Lucian 12-6

11/6/2014 16:31:53 What is your favorite song and why? I really honestly can’t pick. I have too many. 11/13/2014 13:25:54 How did you come to find yourself as a dom and a person? Through trial and error, like a lot of people. I think the two were always the same, I just had to learn how to make them mesh properly and understand that my Dom needed to be defined and controlled by me, not me defined and controlled by my dominance. Overnight Breakfast Enchiladas 7 Kid-Friendly Tips for Fall Hiking Bundle Up With Scarves

Ask Lucian 12-6

11/6/2014 16:31:53 What is your favorite song and why? I really honestly can’t pick. I have too many. 11/13/2014 13:25:54 How did you come to find yourself as a dom and a person? Through trial and error, like a lot of people. I think the two were always the same, I just had to learn how to make them mesh properly and understand that my Dom needed to be defined and controlled by me, not me defined and controlled by my dominance. Related articles across the web 7 Kid-Friendly Tips for Fall Hiking 28pc 12-Element Stainless Steel Cookware The Big … Continue reading

  • Note:

    I usually refer to males as the more dominant and females as the more submissive. The intention is NOT to say that ALL relationships should fit that pattern. My relationship experience is with male dominant, female submissive arrangements and that is the only sort of relationship I have firsthand knowledge about.